I notice that these days couples tend to take their time on issues of dating and marriage, some people live together and to be honest do almost everything as a married couple will do - just to test their compatibility and so on, I think this method helps a lot, because it allows people to understand themselves alot better and at a level they would have never known before now - However, does this guarantee a happier marriage? I know people will change and adjust during the period of learning about each other, but ultimately after marriage dont people just go back to being their former (real) selves and forget about all the sacrifices made before?
I will like to know your views on this subject