Now this is another interesting topic,
Nigerian men have been named the 8th Sexiest Men in the World, according to a survey conducted using a poll of 66,000 American women who use MissTravel.com.
Irish men topped the sexiest list with 7,862 votes while Nigerian men ranked 8th with 721 votes. See the top 10 list below:

Remember the Afghan woman, Farkhunda, who was beaten to death by a brutal mob after being falsely accused of burning a Koran? An Afghan court this morning Wednesday May 6th convicted and sentenced four men to death for their role in her death.
The sentences were part of a trial of 49 suspects, including 19 police officers, over the March 19 killing of 27-year-old woman named Farkhunda who was beaten to death in a frenzied attack sparked by a bogus accusation that she had burned a copy of the Quran.
The trial, which began Saturday, only involved two full days of court proceedings — an unusual swiftness in the slow-moving Afghan judicial system. It was broadcast live on national television, reflecting huge public interest in the case.
A judge handed down the four death sentences at Afghanistan’s Primary Court in Kabul on Wednesday. He also sentenced eight of the defendants to 16 years in prison and dropped charges against 18. The remaining suspects are to be sentenced on Sunday.
The defendants have the right to appeal their sentences. The charges included assault, murder and encouraging others to participate in the assault. The police officers were charged with neglecting their duties and failing to prevent the attack.
Farkhunda’s brother, Mujibullah, told The Associated Press that her family was angered by the leniency of the court toward the majority of the defendants.
“The outcome of the trial is not fair and we do not accept it — you saw just four people sentenced to death but everybody knows that more than 40 people were involved in martyring and burning and beating my sister,” said Mujibullah, who like many Afghans, including his sister, uses only one name.
“Eighteen people have been freed. The court should punish them and that should be a lesson for anyone who would commit this sort of crime, anywhere in our country, in the future,” he added.

If you constantly feel exhausted, experience headaches for no obvious reason or have high blood pressure, it could be the result of snoring.
More than a simple annoyance, snoring is also the most common symptom of a potentially serious health problem—obstructive sleep apnea (OSA).
Over 18 million Americans snore, and it’s related to OSA. People who suffer from OSA repeatedly and unknowingly stop breathing during the night due to a complete or partial obstruction of their airway.  It occurs when the jaw, throat, and tongue muscles relax, blocking the airway used to breathe.  The resulting lack of oxygen can last for a minute or longer, and occur hundreds of times each night.

OSA has been linked to:

• Acid reflux
• Frequent nighttime urination
• Memory loss
• Stroke
• Depression
• Diabetes
• Heart attack
• Consistent lack of sleep

People over 35 are at higher risk. OSA can be expensive to diagnose and treat — up to $5,000 — and those treatments can sometimes be quite painful. Plus, they're not always covered by insurance.
However, a recent study published by Eastern Virginia Medical School's Division of Sleep Medicine concluded that wearing a simple chinstrap while sleeping can be an effective treatment for OSA.
The chin strap, which is now available from a company called MySnoringSolution, works by supporting the lower jaw and tongue, preventing obstruction of the airway.  It’s made from a high-tech, lightweight, and super-comfortable material.  Thousands of people have used the MySnoringSolution chinstrap and reported better sleeping, and better health overall because of it.

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Zimbabwean president, Robert Mugabe, 91, who is rumored to be lining up his 24 year old daughter to replace him as president of the country, looked like he wore weave and earrings as he arrived in South Africa yesterday morning for a state visit. His first trip to South Africa in 20 years. But on close inspection of the funny photo, you’ll see that the hair and earrings belong to a woman standing directly behind him.

Melinda Gates, who is the wife of the richest man in the world, Bill Gates, was recently in Malawi for a visit. She said during her stay there, she joined women to fetch water and she carried 20 liters of water and it was tough for her. She said the woman in the middle, Chrissy, carried 40 liters of water and was very impressed at how the women in the picture were able to do so effortlessly

You are at the point in your life where and when you feel that you are 100% an adult. You earn your own money, you support your family, you pay your bills (and have consistently done it on time), you clean your own apartment, you buy your own groceries, you create life-changing thoughts and decisions in your shower (or in the loo, your choice), you do your laundry, you (try to) manage your schedule (juggling work, family, love and recreation) and you are 25.
And then there are moments in being in this quarter of a century that you understand you are at least a little wiser than yesterday and so much more than 365 days ago. You’ve learned that:
1. Family is everything. This is something you’ve heard countless times from your parents and other grownups when you were just a few feet old but you’ve really learned its essence to the core of your being when you’ve spent years away from home while trying to chase after what the future holds for you. You learned that your mother really is the superwoman in your life without the red and yellow costume you’ve drawn and imagined her to be when you submitted your second grade homework. You learned that your sibling is the greatest ally you can have, no matter your differences. You learned of the grave difficulty your parent/s has/have gone through just so you can have a comfortable life after receiving your paychecks that were earned through a month’s worth of petty issues at work, fatigue, emotional distress, questioning of self-worth and so much more but you still have to show up because yeah, this is life. You respect your parents more because of that. You learned that at the end of the day, the sweetest idea will always be that you will always have somewhere to go and your most favorite people in the world are there waiting for you.
2. The smaller your circle, the lesser the stress. Over time since college, you have learned that not everyone who calls you “sis” on Facebook is a true friend in the real world. You learned that not all people who post collages of your photos together on Instagram on your birthday are people you can count on. You learned that no matter how many hundreds of followers and ‘likers’ you have on social media, you can only count the realest people with just your hands (or plus your toes, if you’re lucky). You learned that if it came to a crazy point where you had to delete and just leave those who you really think will stay with you in real life, your News Feed will only consist of close family and a few friends. Need I elaborate more?
3. God is an amazing God. You learned that He has been guiding you all along and that your wishes and dreams have all been in a way or another, granted – in the way you wanted it to be and sometimes, in a way better than you have imagined. You learned to surrender everything to Him – your disappointments, sorrows, regrets, guilt, dreams and successes. You learned that with Him in your heart, everything will be okay.
4. Your lover is your best-est friend. You learned that there’s really not a constant need for girl talks and all that because you have the world by your side. You have the greatest confidant in someone you call your boyfriend. You learned that there’s no point hiding the most authentic you from him as if he’s really meant to stay, he will have to make do of the real you anyway. You learned that that person who stuck with you through thick and thin is worth imagining forever with. You learned that though love is not measured in the years you spent together, the years will always be intangible proof of your solid partnership against the world and that it will always be a source of pride for you.
5. You will never be truly ready. You will never be ready to go through another job interview. You will never be ready to relocate. You will never be ready to attend that high school reunion. You will never be ready for family life. You will never be, what with your very idealistic expectations from yourself and from the world. But you’ve learned that fact so even if it’s as scary as hell, you learn to brave the chance and pray with all your heart that it will be worth it.
6. Travelling is something you owe yourself. You learned that there’s more to travelling than simply spending your hard-earned cash for some flamboyant pleasures of the world. You learned that you learn more of yourself as you travel. You learned that there’s a bigger world of possibilities outside your little space of comfort. You learned that you travel to have your mind and soul grow with you – that you have to do this as a spiritual, mental and emotional hibernation from everything that’s keeping you weighed down. You learned that you deserve it.
7. Money can always be earned. As much as you’ve learned the value of money when you became a part of the working force in your country (or overseas), you’ve also learned its little value when compared to more important things like family, self-love and spirituality. You see now how little luster money has in your eyes and how it pales when beside these other needs or goals in life. You can always earn money. Anytime, anywhere. Memories can never be that way when you’ve chosen money over it.
8. LVs and Louboutins are not investments. You learned that it’s so much worth your sweat and tears to put your money into real investments like building your dream house, purchasing your dream car, having an insurance or saving it all up in the bank. You learned that you’d rather have a more worthwhile ‘show’ of something you can brand your life achievement than flaunt something you can wear for a few years and in very infrequent instances.
9. Your greatest asset will always be a good head on your shoulders. You learned that to be sexy, it doesn’t require you to strip. NOT AT ALL. You learned that being smart is so much more important than spending your time trying to have (and going gaga) over Candice Swanepoel’s tiny waist or Kendall Jenner’s loooooooooooooooonggggggg legs. You’ve learned to spend more of your precious time sharpening both hemispheres of your brain – with some stalking in between, but still.
10. Not everyone’s gonna be nice but you don’t have to be bitter yourself. As much as you want to live in a perfect world, you will always come across people who seem to do nothing but burst someone’s bubble. You have consistently crossed paths with these people but you have learned either to have a safe distance from them or have learned to just simply eradicate them in your life. You learned that you don’t have to join their wagon to be equal or feel better for yourself. You have realized that you love and respect yourself to a degree that you have to protect yourself from these unhealthy people. Instead, you learned to make the opposite of them out of yourself. You learned that the world is too beautiful to not have beautiful people. So you try to inspire, motivate and move by living your life the most positive way you can.

“The people of Nigeria have taken over,” an ecstatic APC spokesman Lai Mohammed told Reuters at the house in the capital where Buhari, a sandal-wearing Muslim ascetic watching the results on television.
With just one of 36 states left to declare, Buhari’s APC had 15.1 million votes versus 11.7 for Jonathan and the PDP, according to a Reuters tally.
Mohammed said there was no reason to doubt Jonathan would concede, in line with a ‘peace accord’ he signed with Buhari before this weekend’s vote to allay fears of violence.
Around 800 people were killed in three days of bloodletting in the mainly Muslim north after a Buhari defeat to Jonathan in 2011.
“He said several times that he would relinquish power if he was voted out in a free and fair election,” Mohammed said.
Muhammadu Buhari ruled from 1983 to 1985 before being ousted in another military takeover led by General Ibrahim Babangida. He has since declared himself a convert to democracy and has run and lost in several previous elections.but this time he has nailed it.
Jonathan’s five years at the helm have been plagued by corruption scandals and a Boko Haram Islamist insurgency in the northeast in which thousands have been killed. The PDP has run Nigeria since the end of military rule in 1999.
Bar some technical glitches and the killing of more than a dozen voters by Boko Haram militants in the northeast, the election has been the smoothest and most orderly in recent history – a factor that appears to have played in the outcome.
“There are probably lots of reasons why the PDP might have lost, but I think the key one is that the elections just haven’t been rigged,” said Antony Goldman, a business consultant with high-level contacts in Nigeria.
We will now wait to hear from INEC on the official reports on the News, and we hope their will be A Peaceful transfer of power with out any form of violence just as Mr Goodluck Jonathan Promised before the Presidential elections.

Human Acts are truly evil but some are just too heartless to even be reported on a blog, but anyway is always good to report this stories so that people will learn and understand how evil the human mind is in relation to our actions.
A 25-year-old Michigan woman Kim Pappas was charged with homicide after giving birth to a son in a bathroom stall at work. Kim didn’t tell anyone she was pregnant. On Thursday last week, she went into labour while at work, went to the bathroom, had her baby, a boy, cut the umbilical cord with cuticle scissors, sealed the baby in a plastic bag, returned to her desk and hid her baby in a drawer, officials said during a court appearance on Friday.
After she left the toilet stall, one of her coworkers who heard moaning went in there and saw blood all over the place, she didn’t see who was in the stall, only heard moaning, so she reported the bloodied floor to management, who called the Police.
Kim Pappas didn’t admit what she did until one of her coworkers saw blood stains on her dress. They saw blood on her drawer, opened it and saw the baby’s body in there. The baby showed no signs of life at the office and was later pronounced dead at the hospital.
When asked, Kim initially admitted that she gave birth to the baby but that she miscarried. Upon further investigation, an autopsy was carried out which revealed that the baby was full term and died of suffocation. Then she admitted to what she had done.
Kim was then arrested and charged with premeditated murder. She is currently in jail without bond. Her Lawyer is trying to plead a case of insanity but no one is buying it.

After months of Anticipation and Obvious expectation the Wife of former US President Bill Clinton has finally declared that she is running for president. Hilary Clinton wants to become the very first female US president . After the top job have been dominated my men over the past 300 years.
speaking in an interview she said;
“I’m running for president. Everyday Americans need a champion. And I want to be that champion. So I’m hitting the road to earn your vote – because it’s your time. And I hope you’ll join me on this journey.” she said
Also Barack Obama the incumbent president have called her a friend and said she will make an excellent president. Already her opponents are on her about the personal email account saga, more like to remind the American people the dark side of the former first lady.

On 14th February 2015,Dencia  gave back to society as she held her Dencia Foundation for Hope 2015 Charity Event at Covenant House  in Los Angeles, California.
A few days back, she was also on Fox DC where she talked about her Whitenicious range and the controversy surrounding it ..
Girl is on a roll..More below

Amber Rose shaking it in Trinidad ;
The feud between Amber Rose and Khloe Kardashian seems not to be braking a sweat on Amber Rose as she attended the on going Trinidad carnivals. We obtained an exclusive video of her shaking what really made her famous, The Ex Night club striper was really showing that she has still got the shaking thing in her.

Are Ghosts Real? well whatever is your personal believe or opinion you will be stunted with this story making headlines across the web. Even the likes of Daily Mail and The Mirror have been sharing the story with their readers.

Today marks the birthday anniversary of one of Nigeria’s leading female vocalists,Tiwa Savage-Balogun. Surprised? You didn’t check your calender? Well,now you know.
This piece seeks to celebrate her with 7 facts you never knew about the lovely songstress. Here you go!
(1). She has a degree in Business Administration from the University Of Kent in the United Kingdom.
(2). She also has a degree in music from the Berklee College Of Music in Boston,Massachusetts.
(3). She was a participant in the UK Edition of the X Factor in 2006. She dazzled her way to the Final 24,but couldn’t go any further.
(4). She is the FIRST(Yeah I said it!) African female artist to be associated with the Pepsi brand,by virtue of her signing an endorsement deal with them.
(5). She has been involved in several humanitarian projects. She has been a part of breast cancer screening projects across Nigeria,as well as youth empowerment programs. She also helped raise money for the construction of schools in her hometown.
(6). Her engagement to her husband,Tunji “Tee-Billz” Balogun took place on her birthday in 2013.
(7). Her acting debut came in the stage adaptation of “For Coloured Girls” alongside Joke Silva and Ireti Doyle.

If you are single on Valentine’s day you might feel a bit disturbed. well dont worry you are not alone it is totally normal . It happens to many people. Lets admit it. When everyone around you is happily pairing up with someone, you are left alone. Everyone is busy and nobody gives you company. This disturbs you a bit and in some people can go as far as making them depressed and psychologically feeling bad about them self expecially women between the age of 18-28.
Firstly, have it in mind that relationships happen when they have to happen so you cant force a relationship to happen. Relationships end when they have to end you cant stop it from Ending either. We have little control over them because it has to do with two people; all we can do is enjoy every moment of it when it happens. If nothing happens, we simply have to wait for them to happen. Of course, we need to do our bit by being available to the right person and proposing marriage at the right moment. Beyond that, what else can we do if we are single. Okay, lets move on. Let us simply discuss about the  5 Things To Do On Valentine’s Day If You Are Single.
– Go to the nearest park and watch other couples;                                                         One thing to do is to go to the nearest lovers’ park. You will be able to watch a lot of couples eager to do what they ‘couldn’t do’ all these days. Look at their faces and watch their actions. this can be very helpful  and definitly betterthan not going out at all.                                                                                                                                                           -Feel jealous; There is nothing wrong in feeling jealous for one day. Just feel jealous and and let go of those negative feelings. Your ‘day’ will soon come and on that day, you can get your partner to the same park and do ‘things’.  but make sure you feel jealous in a positive way.
–When other couples fight with each other, laugh out loud! In that park, you will surely see at least one couple fighting with each other loudly. Watch them closely and intensely. Thats your ‘aha’ moment! Simply congratulate yourself for not falling in the trap of relationships. Lift your head and walk with pride. You are single and free. This is one of the best things to do on valentines day if you are single.
–Buy a gift for yourself as proof of the ‘date’ When going home; simply buy a gift for yourself. This will help as a ‘proof’ that you have dated someone and not bluffed about it. Proudly, go to your friends’ place and throw a party. Show the gift and tell about all the ‘naughty things that your partner did to you. When you see how jealous your friends are, enjoy the feeling! Keep yourself happy at the end of the day if you are single on valentines day.
–Tell your friends you’re going on a date and hide yourself somewhere; This is one of the things to do on Valentines day if you are single. Simply, tell all of your friends that you are busy because you need to go out on a date. To get the act right, hide yourself somewhere for the whole day and switch off your phone. Your friends will think that you are having a ‘steamy hot’ session in some corner of this world with your special someone. This is one of the funny things to do on valentines day if you are single.

What are the signs of a true soul mate? this is a question i get all the time from friends and during public functions. A very intriguing question and one which everyone will be very curious about, especially the younger people. who may just be about to jump into a relationship or marriage.
Basically their is no generally acceptable ways to know or recognize your soul mate, but before we break the ice on the topic, lets look into the basic definition of “Soul mate” we will use the basic Wikipedia definition “A soul mate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, friendship,intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, or compatibility and trust.
Now coming back the signs, In this article we will list the 10 signs you have found your soul mate. please be reminded that this is purely opinionated based on personal experience and view point in correspondent with data from (Dr. Carmen Harra)

Now The 10 signs you have found your soul mate;

1) You look each other in the eye. Soul mates have a tendency to look into each others eyes when speaking more often than ordinary couples. It comes naturally from the deep-seated connection between them. Looking a person in the eye when speaking denotes a high level of comfort and confidence.
2) You can’t imagine your life without him (or her). A soul mate is not someone you can walk away from that easily. It is someone you can’t imagine being without, a person you believe is worth sticking with and fighting for.
3) You feel secure and protected. Regardless of the gender of your partner, he or she should always make you feel secure and protected. Your soul mate will make you feel like you have a guardian angel by your side. A person who plays on your insecurities, whether consciously or subconsciously, is not your soul mate.
4) It’s intense. A soul mate relationship may be more intense than normal relationships, in both good and sometimes bad ways. The most important thing is that, even during negative episodes, you’re focused on resolving the problem and can see beyond the bad moment.
5) You two against the world. Soul mates often see their relationship as “us against the world.” They feel so linked together that they’re ready and willing to take on any feat of life, so long as they have their soul mate by their side.
6) You’re mentally inseparable. Soul mates often have a mental connection similar to twins. They might pick up the phone to call each other at the exact same time. Though life may keep you apart at times, your minds will always be in tune if you are soul mates.
7) It’s something inside. Describing how a soul mate makes you feel is difficult. It’s a tenacious, profound and lingering emotion which no words can encompass.
8) Flashbacks. If your partner is your soul mate, chances are he or she has been present in your past lives. You might even feel an odd sense of déjà vu, as if the moment in time has already taken place, perhaps a long time ago, perhaps in a different setting.
9) You just get each other. Ever met two people who finish each others sentences? Some people call that spending too much time together, but I call it a soul mate connection. You might experience this with your best friend or your mother, but it is the telltale sign of a soul mate when you experience it with your partner.
10) You fall in love with his (or her) flaws. No relationship is perfect, and even soul mate relationships will experience ups and downs. Still, that bond will be much harder to break. Soul mates have an easier time of accepting, even learning to love, each others imperfections

I say their Beauty is suprime because they don’t have any plastic attached to their body to enhance their Amazingly beautiful figure.
This is what a classic beauty looks like.
Obama’s children; Malia, 16 (left), and Sasha, who recently turned 14, (right) pictured as they followed their mum to see UK Prime Minister at Downing Street this afternoon.
They are growing into beautiful young women. More photos after the cut

In this Section we will walk you through the Five common Causes of Low Sperm Count. When a couple is experiencing infertility, a semen analysis is often done to determine a man’s sperm count, as well as how healthy his sperm are. When a couple finds out that their infertility may be related to a low sperm count, it can be very difficult to cope with, especially when there are so many different things that could be causing a low sperm count, so After Days of Research on the internet I tried to find out the major common habits that can lead to low sperm count instead. beacuse they are many other possible causes of low sperm count but in this Article I will walk you through the Five Common Causes of Low Sperm Count.
Varicoceles- A varicocele is a swollen, varicose vein located in the scrotum. It is not uncommon for men to have a varicocele and roughly 15% of men have one. These swollen veins can affect how the sperm are able to be released from the testicles. If a varicocele is affecting fertility, it may be corrected surgically or the couple may opt for intrauterine insemination to get pregnant, which injects the sperm directly into the uterus, bypassing the vaginal canal.

Heat exposure- The testicles are outside of the body in order to keep the testicles cool to protect sperm from dying from the heat. Men who expose their scrotum to heat may have a lower sperm count than men that don’t. Taking hot baths, using a hot tub, placing laptop computers on the lap or keeping the groin too warm just from clothing can negatively impact sperm count. So just keep your laptop on the desk or on any other hard surface ,but not on your lap. Dont use hot tubs when is not Cold outside.
Retrograde ejaculation-
In some cases, a man with a low sperm count may suffer from something known as retrograde ejaculation. Retrograde ejaculation occurs when semen doesn’t follow the usual course and eject out of the urethra, “Imagine when water in a tap cant flow in the direction of the pipe carry the water” but instead, enters the bladder during orgasm. Retrograde ejaculation may be a symptom of a much more serious problem, such as diabetes, multiple sclerosis, or may be the result of a spinal injury or surgery on the bladder, prostrate or urethra. In some cases, retrograde ejaculation may even be a side effect of certain medications. So visit your Doctor to be very sure of the exact disease causing retrograde ejaculation.

Illness and infection-
In women, suffering from an illness or infection can delay or prevent ovulation. Men’s bodies work similarly. If a man is suffering from an illness or infection, it could potentially lower his sperm count until he regains his health. Note: this is not so common in people between the age of 15-45 so visit a doctor to be sure.
Use of drugs, alcohol or tobacco The use of illicit drugs, alcohol and tobacco products may decrease a man’s sperm count. The use of tobacco is especially concerning and could dramatically decrease the number of healthy sperm in a man’s ejaculate. For couples who are trying to conceive, it is best to give up smoking as well as alcohol and drug consumption while trying to conceive. PLEASE LIKE US ON FACEBOOK

According to MTO, Nicki Minaj and her boo Meek Mill are history. She reportedly dumped him last night after having had enough of the Twitter war between Meek and Drake who once dated Nicki.
Their report:

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Just when you thought that Meek Mill’s week couldn’t get ANY WORSE . . . MediaTakeOut.com learned that Nicki Minaj and Meek have officially decided to call it QUITS. Nicki reportedly broke it off with Meek LAST NIGHT. Don’t worry concertgoers . . . they are still of GOOD TERMS – at least NICKI IS with Meek. The two plan on FULFILLING the rest of the tour obligations together. But as for their relationship . .. . it’s a WRAP.
What caused the BREAKUP . . . and why did it happen LAST NIGHT . . . shortly after Meek Mill’s new diss track FLOPPED??
According to one of Nicki’s BEST FRIENDS, “It’s complicated. I think they took their relationship too far, too fast.” Nicki’s homie REFUSED to say whether the Drake WAR had anything to do with it. But we suspect that IT DID.
You’ll recall that MediaTakeOut.com BROKE THE NEWS that Meek STARTED THE WAR when he learned that Drake and Nicki had a ‘DATING’ RELATIONSHIP in the past. And it has to be MORE THAN COINCIDENCE that Nicki DUMPED DUDE . . . just when he’s become a LAUGHING STOCK on social media.

You are at the point in your life where and when you feel that you are 100% an adult. You earn your own money, you support your family, you pay your bills (and have consistently done it on time), you clean your own apartment, you buy your own groceries, you create life-changing thoughts and decisions in your shower (or in the loo, your choice), you do your laundry, you (try to) manage your schedule (juggling work, family, love and recreation) and you are 25.
And then there are moments in being in this quarter of a century that you understand you are at least a little wiser than yesterday and so much more than 365 days ago. You’ve learned that:
1. Family is everything. This is something you’ve heard countless times from your parents and other grownups when you were just a few feet old but you’ve really learned its essence to the core of your being when you’ve spent years away from home while trying to chase after what the future holds for you. You learned that your mother really is the superwoman in your life without the red and yellow costume you’ve drawn and imagined her to be when you submitted your second grade homework. You learned that your sibling is the greatest ally you can have, no matter your differences. You learned of the grave difficulty your parent/s has/have gone through just so you can have a comfortable life after receiving your paychecks that were earned through a month’s worth of petty issues at work, fatigue, emotional distress, questioning of self-worth and so much more but you still have to show up because yeah, this is life. You respect your parents more because of that. You learned that at the end of the day, the sweetest idea will always be that you will always have somewhere to go and your most favorite people in the world are there waiting for you.
2. The smaller your circle, the lesser the stress. Over time since college, you have learned that not everyone who calls you “sis” on Facebook is a true friend in the real world. You learned that not all people who post collages of your photos together on Instagram on your birthday are people you can count on. You learned that no matter how many hundreds of followers and ‘likers’ you have on social media, you can only count the realest people with just your hands (or plus your toes, if you’re lucky). You learned that if it came to a crazy point where you had to delete and just leave those who you really think will stay with you in real life, your News Feed will only consist of close family and a few friends. Need I elaborate more?
3. God is an amazing God. You learned that He has been guiding you all along and that your wishes and dreams have all been in a way or another, granted – in the way you wanted it to be and sometimes, in a way better than you have imagined. You learned to surrender everything to Him – your disappointments, sorrows, regrets, guilt, dreams and successes. You learned that with Him in your heart, everything will be okay.
4. Your lover is your best-est friend. You learned that there’s really not a constant need for girl talks and all that because you have the world by your side. You have the greatest confidant in someone you call your boyfriend. You learned that there’s no point hiding the most authentic you from him as if he’s really meant to stay, he will have to make do of the real you anyway. You learned that that person who stuck with you through thick and thin is worth imagining forever with. You learned that though love is not measured in the years you spent together, the years will always be intangible proof of your solid partnership against the world and that it will always be a source of pride for you.
5. You will never be truly ready. You will never be ready to go through another job interview. You will never be ready to relocate. You will never be ready to attend that high school reunion. You will never be ready for family life. You will never be, what with your very idealistic expectations from yourself and from the world. But you’ve learned that fact so even if it’s as scary as hell, you learn to brave the chance and pray with all your heart that it will be worth it.
6. Travelling is something you owe yourself. You learned that there’s more to travelling than simply spending your hard-earned cash for some flamboyant pleasures of the world. You learned that you learn more of yourself as you travel. You learned that there’s a bigger world of possibilities outside your little space of comfort. You learned that you travel to have your mind and soul grow with you – that you have to do this as a spiritual, mental and emotional hibernation from everything that’s keeping you weighed down. You learned that you deserve it.
7. Money can always be earned. As much as you’ve learned the value of money when you became a part of the working force in your country (or overseas), you’ve also learned its little value when compared to more important things like family, self-love and spirituality. You see now how little luster money has in your eyes and how it pales when beside these other needs or goals in life. You can always earn money. Anytime, anywhere. Memories can never be that way when you’ve chosen money over it.
8. LVs and Louboutins are not investments. You learned that it’s so much worth your sweat and tears to put your money into real investments like building your dream house, purchasing your dream car, having an insurance or saving it all up in the bank. You learned that you’d rather have a more worthwhile ‘show’ of something you can brand your life achievement than flaunt something you can wear for a few years and in very infrequent instances.
9. Your greatest asset will always be a good head on your shoulders. You learned that to be sexy, it doesn’t require you to strip. NOT AT ALL. You learned that being smart is so much more important than spending your time trying to have (and going gaga) over Candice Swanepoel’s tiny waist or Kendall Jenner’s loooooooooooooooonggggggg legs. You’ve learned to spend more of your precious time sharpening both hemispheres of your brain – with some stalking in between, but still.
10. Not everyone’s gonna be nice but you don’t have to be bitter yourself. As much as you want to live in a perfect world, you will always come across people who seem to do nothing but burst someone’s bubble. You have consistently crossed paths with these people but you have learned either to have a safe distance from them or have learned to just simply eradicate them in your life. You learned that you don’t have to join their wagon to be equal or feel better for yourself. You have realized that you love and respect yourself to a degree that you have to protect yourself from these unhealthy people. Instead, you learned to make the opposite of them out of yourself. You learned that the world is too beautiful to not have beautiful people. So you try to inspire, motivate and move by living your life the most positive way you can.

The story by a Nigerian man named Emeka Ugwuonye exposing female traffickers that lure desperate girls into selling their bodies in countries like Malaysia, Russia, the UAE and China has gone viral.
According to Emeka, following a previous exposition of one Esther Otubo Nicole, people kept sending him and members of his group, the Due Process Advocates (DPA), the name of one Ebony Lisa.
Ebony is said to be a notorious woman in Dubai, the UAE, the one has tried to keep a low profile, knowing that they were looking in her direction. The videos she had been sending out privately, unfortunately made their way to Facebook. That was the way the DPA tracked her.
Emeka said he and his group of advocates have started to trace the trafficker.
“I just instructed the two girls and told them what to do and where to be tonight, while action is taken against Madam Eboni Lisa,” the activist said.
The finance lawyer gave further details about the flesh peddler. He said her real name was unknown, but that her girls call her ‘Aunty Fegor’, adding that she goes by the name Ebony Lisa on Facebook.
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The DPA spokesman also said that Ebony lives at Sharjah, Abu Shagara, Ismail Building in the UAE, adding that her Facebook page claims she attended a Delta state university, Abraka.
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A telephone number +971562681199, was also given as part of the details.
Meanwhile, on Tuesday, August 4, Emeka Ugwuonye exposed another sex trafficker identified as Esther Otubo Nicole.
The CEO of Eculaw group simply described her as a human trafficker who sends Nigerian girls into prostitution in Dubai. He spoke on a particular video from Facebook, showing a nude girl.
“I got the video of two different girls recorded under the most debasing conditions, naked and scared. What Nicole does is videotape these girls in the nude and blackmails them into prostitution in Dubai.
“I had to expose this lady, so I opened a chat group on Facebook, and my aim is to checkmate the activities of Nicole and her kind.”
Emeka’s Facebook status was titled: “There Is A Criminal On The Prowl That We All Need To Help Track Down”
In his status, he said that before they leave Nigeria, Nicole would first make the girls and their parents swear to some local shrine in the belief that such would place a curse of sudden death on those girls if they were to disobey her.
It is gathered that the total amount she plans to get from each girl is about $30,000. Nicole allegedly uses blackmail as an additional means of enforcing her plan.
“She takes a video recording of each girl, who is made to stand nude, fully nude. She says to each girl that if she failed to pay her $30,000 when she gets to Dubai or elsewhere, she would release the video tape on Facebook and that if she paid, she would delete the videotape,” Emeka said.
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Ostensibly, some of the girls did not meet up with the agreement, hence Nicole released their videos on Facebook.
Emeka affirms having seen the videos: “I have personally seen videos of three girls in such humiliation. People forwarded them to me in order for me to use DPA to help track down the woman that is behind all this.
“A friend of mine and a member of DPA who discussed this with me yesterday over an inbox exchange has already taken some steps.”
The advocate went on to say that his friend has contacted the UAE Embassy in Washington and the FBI Crime Alert, an action which he deems as reasonable.
“We now have her particulars, and we are now seeking to get her arrested in Dubai, there are many, many Nigerian girls suffering under her control. These girls lack the ability to cry out, they are in slavery and bondage, we must set them free and we must have the ‘Madam’ arrested,” Emeka concluded.
Esther Otubo Nicole is said to be from Bayelsa, but living in the Marina area of Dubai. Her phone was given as: +971 55 837 88 59. Emeka reveals that she has a daughter in Nigeria, who is currently serving in the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC).